AGING ON PACE

Aging on Pace envisions aging as a new beginning. One day we are 30, suddenly we are 60, and before we know it! – we are celebrating our 90th birthday.

 

Selfhelp’s Aging on Pace philosophy acknowledges that we each age at different paces. We each have our own passions, priorities, and preferences.

 

Some may decide to work into their 70s, 80s, or 90s; others might go back to school to finish an advanced degree, read the countless unread books on our bookshelves, and/or deepen our friendships and family relationships.

 

Selfhelp understands that a “one size fits all” approach to care doesn’t work. We believe that everyone deserves to age with dignity and independence because every person deserves compassionate, trusted, and innovative care that respects their life experiences. 

What do we want?

  • No ageism! We know it when we see it – and so does Selfhelp.
  • We are from diverse cultures, races, gender identities, ethnicities, sexual orientations, and abilities. One size most certainly doesn’t fit all. Selfhelp staff represents the communities we serve.
  • Speak my language! Selfhelp activities are offered in Mandarin, Cantonese, Korean, Russian, Spanish, English, and more.
  • We are determined to remain strong and independent. Selfhelp’s holistic health and wellness approach will support our physical, mental, emotional, social, intellectual, and/or spiritual goals and values.
  • We are naturally social people. If we are feeling lonely, we can look to Selfhelp for invitations to social gatherings, coffee meet ups, walking clubs, movie nights, wellness events, educational and health classes, and more. Even a surprise birthday party or two (shhhh!).
  • We want to safely travel in the virtual world. When we don’t feel like going out, or can’t, we can meet in Selfhelp’s Virtual Senior Center – a very fun collection of live and recorded online happenings, discussion groups, and useful classes.

If life becomes overwhelming, we can turn to Selfhelp for —

  • A stable place to live. Selfhelp will help us to apply for an affordable apartment in one of our 19 independent living residences – where social services are provided if we ever want them. Selfhelp Realty Group

  • Home health care. Selfhelp’s Licensed Home Care Services Agencies (LHCSAs) will provide us with short or long-term help at home with trained Home Health Aides. Home Care

  • Referrals. If we need more help than Selfhelp can provide, we will be introduced to medical and mental health providers, home-delivered meals programs, and more. Safety Net, Queens North, SHASAM

  • Comprehensive case management. Selfhelp’s trained case managers and social workers are here for us. We all may have multiple needs at one time or other. It helps to have a person to turn to. Safety Net, Queens North

  • And if we ever show signs of cognitive decline, Selfhelp will provide skilled support. SHARP

  • Specialized services for those who survived the Holocaust or lived through difficult times. Our staff respects each person’s life experience so that they feel valued and have a say in the care they receive – personalized care that acknowledges past trauma.

  • Virtual classes about topics we love. Selfhelp’s Virtual Senior Center is available 24/7 with live and interactive classes on history, art, music, movies and books, learning to use technology, social events and celebrations, and more. Virtual Senior Center

We all need community and connection to preserve overall health and well-being. And when we need help and support, we can get it from the people who get it: Selfhelp Community Services.

 

When independence and dignity are at the forefront of our services, we can create deeper relationships and better understand each person’s needs. We’re not afraid to think big to create individualized plans, ensuring that everyone can age with dignity.